How do you deal with peoples aloofness unfriendliness without losing it?

there is nothing more true than a 'dog is mans best friend'. get yourself a little white fluffy maltese puppy,raise it as you would want to be raised and you will find the truth to that statement. you can also rent or buy a bunch of comedy's to keep laughter in your life.buy a cheap accoustic guitar and enjoy teaching yourself. get some paints and canvas and esp. paint when you feel aggression,keep it abstract and you just might find additional income and a source for meeting others etc etc.